A paradigm-shifting guide for parents and caregivers, this book offers insights, strategies and understanding to navigate middle childhood (ages 6-12). Dr. Sheryl Ziegler, a seasoned clinical psychologist and mother, highlights ways to foster resilience, encourage open communication and build lasting connections during this crucial period.
A pivotal sea change is happening in children’s development. The age of puberty has been trending earlier for decades and now starts as young as 8 years old in girls and 9 in boys. Bullying doesn’t just happen on the playground, but over text and DM. Depression and anxiety are drastically on the rise. Couple earlier puberty with ill-equipped, developing brains and the onslaught of new media and stressors that never existed when we were kids, and it’s clear that parents need a new guide to raise this new generation.
The Crucial Years is your essential handbook to navigating the often misunderstood and overlooked years of middle childhood (ages 6-12). As a mother and clinical psychologist, Dr. Sheryl Ziegler knows first-hand how challenging these years can be – yet she also recognizes that this is a tender age and pivotal opportunity to connect with your child before adolescence. Dr. Ziegler masterfully unlocks the enigma surrounding modern puberty and offers evidence-based strategies, interventions and answers to middle childhood’s most perplexing questions and concerns. In these pages she provides:
– Science-based advice to recognize the first signs of puberty and navigate the changes to come.
– Candid and actionable guidance for getting your kids to talk about anxiety, depression and their complicated feelings.
– Insight into the changing world of gender and sexual identity, and how to guide your child through this complicated new landscape.
– A thoughtful and sensitive discussion of how race intersects with puberty and mental health, and how all parents can approach this mindfully and inclusively.
– A clear explanation of the invisible threads linking mood swings, self-image and social media exposure.
– Road-tested, real-world guidance to handle bullies, mean girls and other friendship and social challenges.
The Crucial Years gives you everything you need to guide your child through the hazards and thrills of puberty and help them emerge as well-rounded, confident young adults.
A pivotal sea change is happening in children’s development. The age of puberty has been trending earlier for decades and now starts as young as 8 years old in girls and 9 in boys. Bullying doesn’t just happen on the playground, but over text and DM. Depression and anxiety are drastically on the rise. Couple earlier puberty with ill-equipped, developing brains and the onslaught of new media and stressors that never existed when we were kids, and it’s clear that parents need a new guide to raise this new generation.
The Crucial Years is your essential handbook to navigating the often misunderstood and overlooked years of middle childhood (ages 6-12). As a mother and clinical psychologist, Dr. Sheryl Ziegler knows first-hand how challenging these years can be – yet she also recognizes that this is a tender age and pivotal opportunity to connect with your child before adolescence. Dr. Ziegler masterfully unlocks the enigma surrounding modern puberty and offers evidence-based strategies, interventions and answers to middle childhood’s most perplexing questions and concerns. In these pages she provides:
– Science-based advice to recognize the first signs of puberty and navigate the changes to come.
– Candid and actionable guidance for getting your kids to talk about anxiety, depression and their complicated feelings.
– Insight into the changing world of gender and sexual identity, and how to guide your child through this complicated new landscape.
– A thoughtful and sensitive discussion of how race intersects with puberty and mental health, and how all parents can approach this mindfully and inclusively.
– A clear explanation of the invisible threads linking mood swings, self-image and social media exposure.
– Road-tested, real-world guidance to handle bullies, mean girls and other friendship and social challenges.
The Crucial Years gives you everything you need to guide your child through the hazards and thrills of puberty and help them emerge as well-rounded, confident young adults.
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Reviews
The Crucial Years is more than a book-it is a road map for any adult supporting children. Dr. Ziegler addresses science and strategies that aim to strengthen our children and ourselves. Forward thinking and prevention based, The Crucial Years is a must read! - Eve Rodsky New York Times bestselling author of Fair Play
The Crucial Years is the ultimate survival guide.... Reassuring, empowering and grounded in research, this book is a must-have roadmap for any parent seeking to preserve their child's well-being as they make their way through middle childhood. Phyllis L. Fagell, licensed therapist, school counsellor, and author of Middle School Matters
An essential read for every parent. The elementary school years are a time of incredible growth and change and can also be fraught with challenges that you don't see coming. Dr. Ziegler prepares you for tough conversations so you can raise happier, healthier kids who quickly become happier and healthier teens. - Dr. Michele Borba, educational psychologist and author of Thrivers
No longer the forgotten years, The Crucial Years redefines the ages from 6-12 as a time of opportunity to educate and empower kids. With puberty beginning much earlier, Ziegler provides a developmental framework for understanding the intersection of kids physical and emotional transformation during middle childhood. Her clear explanations and parenting scripts will be a useful tool for any parent navigating this period! Vanessa Kroll Bennett, co-author of This Is So Awkward: Modern Puberty Explained